Xavier could understand the frustration that Bella had to face as he had faced the same frustration before as well when he was trying to make a change, but it was best for him. Xavier couldn't really put himself in Bella's boots because of the gender difference and that everyone had different points of views of taking things, but all Xavier wanted as good things for Bella, for her to make friends, to have a enjoyable life, instead of sitting in one corner of Hogwarts doing nothing, or getting into random arguments with random students that you don't even know. Xavier can feel the tension from Bella because he use to do the same thing, pick on people, argue randomly, sometimes get into fights and so on. "I understand it isn't easy for you Bella. I'm just giving you useful advice, taking the advice into consideration or not, now that's entirely up to you, my job as a friend of yours is to point you towards a good path, instead of putting you down the wrong path, like most Slytherin students do." said Xavier holding Bella by her shoulder using his hands. Xavier really liked Bella, but one, they couldn't be together as due to Xavier's situation, and two, Xavier couldn't bare to see anything bad happen to Bella. "Look Bella, we can't be together and you know that, but I think we would made good best friends, don't you think?' said Xavier with a smile. Xavier liked the idea of Bella and him being best friends, not because of Bella liking him or anything, but because of the good connection that they had with each other.
Xavier was starting to debate himself on the inside about his situation with Bella. On one hand, he was engaged with Eleona whom he loved a lot, but there was Bella now that he liked a lot. Xavier started to look towards the sky and started to think on his own, going into his own thoughts, asking himself what he should do in this awkward situation. Xavier didn't want to leave Eleona because they had so much in common, they were pretty much perfect for each other, she cared for him a lot and what not. Then there was Bella, whom started to like Xavier a lot and Xavier had a feeling that he started to get feelings for Bella as well just like he has feelings for Eleona, but he just didn't know what to do. "I..I..I..I really don't know what to do Bella. I know I'm young, and I don't consider myself trapped or held down just because I'm engaged, but it would break Eleona's heart if I leave her, and I can't bare to see that. I have feelings for Eleona, but I have feelings for you as well, and It's killing me on the inside." said Xavier grabbing his head. Xavier just didn't know what to do or where to go or who to choose. He didn't want to break his engagement with Eleona, but he didn't want to leave Bella either. Xavier didn't believe in cheating on someone because he has always been against it his whole life, so that wasn't a good option for him. Bella then gave a hopeful look to Xavier which drowned him even more to thinking about what he should do.
When Xavier was giving the blue ball to Bella, he noticed that Bella was kind of resisting at first, but then when Xavier explained to her on what the blue ball was for, she took a breather and took it. Xavier was very happy to hear from Bella that she would treasure the Blue ball forever. "Just keep the blue ball with you, think of me being with you all the time, you can talk to the blue ball and thoughts would transfer to me as well through the blue ball since it's connected directly to my body and my mind. Just don't let anything bad happen to it, otherwise, things will start to get really bad with me." said Xavier with a smile. Xavier knew that it was a risk giving a part of him to Bella knowing what the consequences would be if it got into the wrong hands, but he trusted Bella and with that, he gave her another smile. "Bella, I know that we would be perfect together, but Eleona promises me a good and loving future. I can clearly see us getting married, hence why we took the step of being engaged, because we both love each other dearly. I know that as long as me and Eleona will be together, we will stay with each other for a very long time, which I get the feeling all the time I'm around her. Can you promise me something like this?" said Xavier questioning Bella. Xavier was giving a little test to Bella, to see how much she liked or loved him.